Some of us are driven by who we think we are supposed to be and others by who we think we need to be. Who I need to be is driven from a different perspective. Whilst who I am supposed to be is driven by expectation, who I need to be is driven by negative forces. It is the need to prove that the negative views and opinions others have of me are wrong and that I am in fact much better than that, and enough. Just watch me prove it! If we have grown up in an environment where we witnessed or experienced a lot of judgement, we are more likely to be less certain of ourselves and therefore have a
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