We simply make the best decision we can at the time based on the knowledge we have of our circumstances and how we’re feeling at the time. Isn’t it interesting, then, to observe how often people beat themselves up about the ‘mistakes’ they have made when they set out in the first place to make the best decision they could. Beating yourself up about past decisions is the subconscious mind’s way of reinforcing the underlying sense of self that has question marks and doubt about whether we are enough. Let it go.

