Once, I felt very, very low after a breakup. I came up with my own explanation of why I wasn’t good enough for the guy, and I remember exactly what Eric told me: “Bud, good relationships make you want to be so fully you that even the parts that you thought were broken they somehow teach you to love. In good relationships, you’re not wondering if you’re too this, or too that. The person loves you because you’re too this and too that and actually wants you to be more this and more that.” So I guess this post is for anyone who’s considered toning it down. Maybe turn it up. Because if you can be
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