try to prove they’re good enough to be loved. don’t take time to see if other people are good for them. worry whether other people love or like them. don’t take time to figure out if they love or like other people. center their lives around other people. look to relationships to provide all their good feelings. lose interest in their own lives when they love. worry other people will leave them. don’t believe they can take care of themselves. stay in relationships that don’t work. tolerate abuse to keep people loving them. feel trapped in relationships. leave bad relationships and form new ones
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