Callum did not drink, which theoretically I do not mind, or at least pretend not to mind, because what kind of a person would mind about a person not drinking? But in fact I do mind, it actually really bothers me, because I doubt people who don’t drink really know how to enjoy things. Of course, I can’t be sure of this, nor can I assert that I know how to enjoy things, either. But someone who feels out of control around alcohol may not be the best at managing their own pleasures, and that leaves me unconvinced that they will allow me to enjoy pleasure myself, let alone give it to me.