I could tell you hated that about her, her loudness. You came from a quiet house where people nodded when they walked past you and she one where they shouted up several floors, ‘WHAT WAS THE NAME OF THAT FILM WE WATCHED THE OTHER NIGHT, LOVE?’ You probably thought her noise inconsiderate. She probably thought it rude not to speak to someone when you entered a room. You both seemed to think the other was being unreasonable and oftentimes one of you was, but you both had such different definitions of what was reasonable.