What you build in the wake and the aftermath of loss will be so profound, so stunning, you will realize that maybe, the loss was part of the plan. Maybe it awakened a part of you that would have remained dormant had you not been pushed the way you were. If you are certain that you cannot let go of what is hurting you, then don’t. But take one step today, and then another tomorrow, to rebuild a new life for yourself. Piece by piece, day by day. Because sooner or later, you’re going to go an hour and realize you didn’t think about them, or it. Then a day, then a week…and then years and swaths of
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