Coming to this understanding requires a lot of reflection and experimentation, but surprisingly, this is often much easier on the pathless path than the default path. Because I work for myself, I spend zero minutes a year blaming other people for my circumstances. It forces me to take complete ownership of my life and continue to experiment, reflect, and try again. In six months I can experiment with my life in many more ways than I did in the ten years I spent on the default path, allowing me to learn much more quickly.
