I have no doubt that many cisgender lesbians would not feel sexual desire for a trans woman, especially one with a penis, or that a lesbian may express interest in a woman until learning that the woman is trans and changing her mind. Ultimately everyone has a right to set sexual boundaries for any reason and to not feel pressured sexually on an individual basis. Yet, as with the trans man thrown out of a gay sauna, there is a crucial distinction to be made between this scenario and the mere presence of trans women on, for example, lesbian dating sites or in lesbian bars and their being cast as
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