that will never allow us to forget. Choosing to spend time thinking of someone you care for now does not mean forgetting someone you loved intensely, and whom you will love forever. Accepting means that we don’t spend time in the past to the exclusion of spending time in the present, and that we don’t use our ability to time travel in order to avoid the present. In the next chapter, we’ll explore what it might mean to live in the present in the face of grief.
