You kill whatever you cling to. For anything to survive, it must have a degree of freedom. Imagine if the skies held on to clouds, never letting them go. There would have been no rains, the oceans would have eventually dried up, and the planet would have ceased to exist. Nature sustains on the principle of impermanence. Awakening is to be at ease with your ever-changing life. It may not be easy, but it’s entirely doable.