This is a confusing feeling. It is not literally feeling that you are another gender, at least not for me. It’s more that I feel like a mix of what society has decided are masculine and feminine characteristics. My sexual attraction and my gender expression both work this way, with fluctuating fondness, and not necessarily linked to one another. Some days I only have eyes for women and other feminine-looking humans, but I also feel and dress like an incredibly feminine woman . . . like our feminine softness could combine and become the most powerful thing in the universe. Other days I feel and
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