He said shame was interesting because it was the place where the self and society cross. I know what you think of me, silly, narcissistic Ivy, a model embracing all the clichés. Taking drugs and shagging men more interested in being seen with me than really seeing me,’ She stares me in the eye until I turn away. ‘Don’t look so guilty. We’re all superior in what we think are the right choices. We all judge. Each of us has judged everyone in this room in order to feel better about ourselves. It’s only natural. But
