It might be worth noting that if your church service disintegrates when you cut out saying “lame” as a slur, you aren’t worshiping God in the first place. If you’re worried that spending money on a ramp or elevator isn’t worth it, you probably aren’t as welcoming to disabled people as you think. If you have concert lighting but don’t have an accessible bathroom, you might have lost the plot of what church is a long time ago.