No Idea What I'm Doing But F*ck It

by Ron Lim

you can't decide which choice to go for so you end up doing nothing at all.

you say you don't care but yet you still do you know the things you shouldn't do but yet you still do.

you don't know what you are waiting for so you are just waiting for something that isn't going to come.

you're waiting for a perfect time – where everything will work out smoothly. but there is no perfect time. and the "perfection" you're waiting for, might not be as perfect as you think.

with enough time, problems sometimes start to solve themselves.

you want to keep everything, but you can't. you are afraid to make a wrong decision, so you avoid doing anything.

you wait for a perfect time, but you end up losing all the time in between. is that really still perfect?

we hear the most from the things peop...

if you spend your energy trying to change things you can't change you'd only end up being deplet...

how many times have you ignored your intuition because you were too afraid of what someone else might think?

sometimes we are too passive to say yes, and they are gone before we know it.

you can’t know anything at all if you never say yes to anything.

how different would your life be if you did all the things you told yourself you would?

the energy you spend worrying about your future is the same energy you need to do som...

say yes to trying something new.

say yes to leaving behind situations that doesn't work anymore.

say yes to reinventing yourself.

you manifest a negative thought inside you on repeat until it comes true and you call it bad luck.

you won't know if it's right, until you have the answer. and you can't get an answer, if you don't try.

you wait for others to point you a direction and you wonder why you end up in a place you don't belong.

I do not know where I am meant to be but I do know that I do not belong here and that is enough for me to leave.

if you're debating to yourself if you should make a change, the answer is yes. you can always go back to what you've left behind.

it is better to fuck up than to live your entire life and have nothing happen at all.

there is a kind of tiredness that sleep doesn't make go away it comes from the aching of your soul longing to be someone else tired of pretending to care about all the things you don't care about. there is a kind of tiredness you cannot make go away it lays there deep in your soul growing more and more weary as you continue to do things that does not feed your soul.

change is possible.

you're stuck because you're afraid that you will never have it as good as you do now.

you learn quicker by making mistakes than trying to avoid them.

when you run out of reasons to stay and your soul is pulling you to go you would know, and that is the time to go.

change is more possible than we think.

it's better to be lost than in a place you don't want to be in.

you break your own heart by telling yourself to give it another shot when you already know it is time to let go.

you grow older and some things are just not the same anymore. places that once felt like home could no longer contain your ambition. people you still have love for but not everyone wants the same things as you do. you don’t have to shrink yourself to fit in places you have outgrown. life is not meant to live in one area.

stick with the decision you have chosen and just let things play out. let yourself live through the process.

let life happen. and let yourself live for a little.

bad days come and bad days go. it’s like going through a deck of cards. you gotta get the bad ones out to make space so you can draw the good ones again.

your past does not define you if you fuck up you can always get back up some days feel like years and sometimes years can happen in a few days

it's okay if you change your mind or do the wrong things twice you live and you learn and that's just how it is sometimes

there is a certain kind of power that comes with fully accepting your circumstances for what it is. knowing that you can't change the situation in this immediate moment, but it doesn't mean that it will always be this way. knowing that you have the power in you to change things, but it takes time. and if anything, time and effort are two of the things you have in you to give. and understanding that with enough effort and time, you can change anything. it is all within your control.

there is a line between knowing what you want and what you need and very often, they are not the same thing

doing more takes energy too. the difference is that – one is a dead end, the other one is limitless.

it’s okay to fail. it’s not about succeeding. it’s about living a dream you have always wanted.

remember, you only fail when you give up. otherwise, it's only a process of getting there. it's like you're lost and trying to find the right directions to get to your destination. you're not a failure for being lost. you just need to find the right direction and then start walking towards it.

some days feel a little heavier than the rest but you will always have time to breathe and try again.

you don’t have to do it all at once. take baby steps out. but don’t forget to do the things you have in mind. don’t end up waiting in vain.

all you have is a vision, right? there is no way you can tell if this vision will come true or not. you can do all the reading, all the talking to people, all the internal debates you have with yourself, and maybe that makes it a little easier. but at the end of the day, you still gotta take that leap. and there is still a possibility that you might hurt yourself in the process. but there will always be that little resistance in you. that little voice in your head telling you that maybe you should reconsider it. but you have already reconsidered it plenty of times. you are trying to wait for that absolute certainty. but deep down, you know that it is not going to come. I think at the end of it all, it comes down to one question – how much do you really want it? I think that makes all the difference.

there is hope in the things that have not happened yet.

do it with all your heart or don't do it at all.

I think the hardest part of it all was to convince myself that I deserved it and went after the things I wanted instead of the things I should and somehow, that was the biggest contributing factor.

you never know how far you can go until you decide to give it a go.

the fear of change is not what usually stops you from growing. it is the desire to actually want to move forward. and making the effort to do it. one little step. by one little step. that's all you need.