But visibility is drastically reduced in a storm, and it has not stopped snowing, so staying may no longer be an option. But before you go, remember the weather almost never shifts this suddenly by itself. You’ve scoured the soil for her carbon footprint a thousand times, but have you scoured it for yours? Not to go looking for shame but to know your own impact. And can you do that without deciding you are a poison in the air? Before you leave, put those questions on the map. Love yourself enough to go there.