“Do you ever feel like you still don’t know?” I ask. “Sometimes, but I think that’s normal.” “I don’t know what normal is. I don’t know what pronouns I want to use. Right now, I feel most comfortable with he/him, but maybe that’s just a comfort thing. I don’t even know if I like the term nonbinary, because it’s like, I do sometimes feel like I exist within the binary, but it’s not stagnant, you know? More fluid, like genderqueer, which is a term I think I like. But … I don’t know.”
