When your own triggered Hulk starts to come out, the reflex is to think, Oh no. I’m getting rageful. I’m turning into a monster again. No, stop, Hulk! Go away! But Ham takes an opposite approach. He talks to his own Hulk tenderly. “What I’m trying to do is to say, like, ‘Hulk, you’re back? You think that I’m in trouble? Oh, thank you so much for loving me so much that you’re trying to protect me.’

