Anticipating regret offers a convenient tool for judgment. In situations where you’re unsure of your next move, ask yourself, “In the future, will I regret this decision if I don’t do X?” Answer the question. Apply that answer to your current situation. This approach underlies the (small but growing) popularity of “obituary parties”—in which people channel their inner Alfred Nobel, draft their own obits, and use the written pieces to inform their remaining years.[20] It is also the animating idea of “pre-mortems.” In this management technique, work teams mentally travel to the future before a
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