FACING OUR OPTIONS | How does the following chart fit your experiences? Which phrases describe you? The unmirrored inner child may either Or Seek relationships that mirror and build trust Seek relationships that fail to mirror and that break trust Understand trauma as a bridge Experience trauma only as an obstacle Recover from the past and move beyond its pain Repeat the past and cling to it Risk what is different Do only what is familiar Wish to transcend an experience Feel compelled to reenact an experience Expect success in relationships Expect failure every time
