It takes time, but change can take hold—if we let God hold us. Change happens when identity changes and our identity is attached to whom we are attached, and how they see us, treat us, act toward us. Our God is the God who stays with us, exactly so we can see ourselves the way He sees us—beloved, cherished, wanted, chosen—because this is what changes our identity, and it’s changing our identity that changes the whole of life. Healthy attachment cures harmful addictions because when we attach our identity to already being loved, there is no more to need. Turn
