ensure your narcissism balance stays in check. Am I making this too much about me? Do I lash out at others if they no longer want to be on my team? What am I learning from the exit interviews with team members who are leaving my company? What am I doing to be a great friend? How am I there for others? Do I have long-term friendships or a lot of shorter-term acquaintances? Being willing to hold up a mirror to yourself and really question your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors can be helpful when determining whether your narcissistic tendencies are in check.