So what are the characteristics of extraordinary sex that Kleinplatz found we should be prioritizing? 1) Being completely present in the moment, embodied, focused and absorbed. 2) Connection, alignment, being in sync. 3) Deep sexual and erotic intimacy. 4) Extraordinary communication and deep empathy. 5) Being genuine, authentic and transparent. 6) Vulnerability and surrender. 7) Exploration, interpersonal risk-taking and fun. 8) Transcendence and transformation.