And I like to be open to the idea that sex can have numerous outcomes. There’s not one kind of sex you have with a partner. You definitely have to work at it, though, and by that I don’t mean sprinkle rose petals around the house. I mean: shut your brain off and just go for it. We have to stay in constant conversation with someone we love, and sex is a different way to have a conversation with them. Which is why I think it’s exciting when you’ve been with someone for ever and then you suddenly have a different kind of sex than you’ve ever had before. You think, what just happened? I thought I
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