Conversations on Love: Lovers, Strangers, Parents, Friends, Endings, Beginnings

by Natasha Lunn

What do you wish you’d known about love? That I needn’t worry about not being good enough. And that love is about finding a home. Our parents aren’t going to live for ever, so I think we need to find a tribe, a family, a community or a group that feels like home. A place where we feel seen, and where we can see. *

But one of the lessons I’ve had to learn is that, while many of my relationships didn’t have the shape that I would’ve chosen, they were the shape that made sense for the connection I had with that person.