If He Had Been with Me

by Laura Nowlin

All the time that became known in my mind as Before.

whyyy does it have to be the before??

Somehow we weren’t friends anymore. It wasn’t a choice. Not really.

this is sad

Sometimes I am disappointed with love. I thought that when you were in love, it would always be right there, staring you in the face, reminding you every moment that you love this person. It seems that it isn’t always like that.

I love him in a way I cannot define, as if my love were an organ within my body that I could not live without yet could not pick out of an anatomy book.

It’s the way I love Finny. And it’s impossible to say and even harder to feel.

I can feel the printed words seeping through my skin and into my veins, rushing to my heart and marking it forever. I want to savor this wonder, this happening of loving a book and reading it for the first time, because the first time is always the best, and I will never read this book for the first time ever again.

“Try to marry your first love. For the rest of your life, no one will ever treat you as well.”

And jealous, and smug, and worried.

is she mentally stable? who feels this way when someone informs them they’re breaking up??

I’m in love with Finny.

ok thanks for letting us know

I’ve loved him my whole life, and somewhere along the way, that love didn’t change but grew. It grew to fill the parts of me that I did not have when I was a child. It grew with every new longing in my body and desire in my heart until there was not a piece of me that did not love him. And when I look at him, there is no other feeling in me.

My love for Finny is buried like a stillborn child; it is just as cherished and just as real, but nothing will ever come of it. I imagine it wrapped up in lace, tucked away in a quiet corner of my heart. It will stay there for the rest of my life, and when I die, it will die with me.

And I know that winter is supposed to end, but things are not always the way they are supposed to be.

This is friendship, and it is love, but I already know what they have not learned yet; how dangerous friendship is, how damaging love can be.

Finny. My Finny.

and how did u come up with this conclusion. yall aren’t even friends

Perhaps he would ask me what books mean to me. I would tell him that it means living another life;

Like all things that have become history, I now feel as if I always knew it, as if all through this story, it had been lurking in the shadows. The story underneath the story.

And we weren’t friends anymore.

On August 8, Phineas Smith died, and I can imagine every detail of that night.

WOAHHHHHH WHAT?????

Death happens to him more suddenly than I can describe to you or even care to imagine.