In this situation, Alex is confronted with two contradictory messages: (1) Gloria’s overt message, which essentially states, “If you care about me, you will respect my wishes and not challenge my autonomy to control my own destiny and even die, if I choose”; and (2) the opposite message, conveyed in the very act of announcing her intentions, which says, “For God’s sake, if you care about me, help me, and don’t let me die.”
