it takes a lot of courage to show up and be all in when we can’t control the outcome. It also takes discipline and self-awareness to understand what to share and with whom. Vulnerability is not oversharing, it’s sharing with people who have earned the right to hear our stories and our experiences.
I believe i struggle a bit with oversharing. I share sometimes not for the individual i am with but to relieve myself of emotions and or thought that have been contained within me.
Be all in when we cant control the outcome. Dating is a practice in vulnerability. To not hid parts of yourself out of fear of rejection and give up a bit of control.