“Conflict can become one of the great shapers of our lives. God uses conflict to reach the deepest levels of who we are as nothing else can. You have been placed into Frederick’s life to love and encourage him. To be his greatest asset. But you are also there to make him a better person than he was without you, and the same for him to you. That’s what people do when they love. They mold and shape one another into better forms of themselves. Sometimes the molding is comfortable—sometimes it’s not.”
