Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity

by Devon Price

Common Autistic Communication Needs Overall Need Some Accommodations You Might Request Clear Expectations • Specific plans with details about time, place, and what is likely to happen • A clear “yes” or “no,” no euphemisms like “I’ll think about it” • Meeting agendas that are handed out in advance, and then adhered to • Reading materials, questions, and discussion topics being provided in advance of a panel, interview, or other high-stress public event • Step-by-step, detailed instructions on how to complete a task • Specific, measurable outcomes or goals. Explicit Messaging • Not assuming people can use facial expression, tone of voice, posture, breathing, or tears as indicators of emotion • Giving direct explanations of feelings: “I am disappointed right now because…” • Recognition and respect of boundaries: “It doesn’t sound like Sherry wants to talk about that right now.” • Not punishing or judging people for failing to read between the lines. • Using clarifying questions: “What would you like me to do about this?” Reduced Sensory/Social Load • Having no expectation of eye contact during intense conversations • Giving space to talk about challenging topics while driving, taking a walk, or doing something with one’s hands • Allowing people to express emotions and opinions via text, email, or handwritten note • Giving people time alone to reflect on their feelings and beliefs • Learning to recognize fawning, and signs of an upcoming meltdown • Providing frequent breaks f...