In Facebook, for example, you might describe the purpose of the friend concept as “allowing two users to establish a relationship in which they can see each others’ posts.” The problem with this formulation is that it hides two distinct purposes. One is filtering: by promoting posts from your friends, Facebook saves you the trouble of sifting through posts from people you’re not interested in. The other is access control: by choosing your friends, you can choose who gets to see your posts. For most users these purposes are indeed often aligned because human relationships tend to be
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