A good mother. Who even knows what that is? For nine months, you carry a child in your body. Then you give birth to this person, and they depend on you (for a while anyway) for every single thing in their life, including their survival. What they need: not only food, warmth, safety, diapers, baths, sunshine, fresh air, milk—also comfort, reassurance, protection, encouragement, vigilance, stamina, compassion. Money. Love. You teach them what