may pour a glass of wine over your head or stuff a fancy cake you just finished making into the garbage. You may go crazy now and then. You may get angry at your child’s father. You may say things you wish you hadn’t. This child you’ve raised may forgive you. Or she may not. On Mother’s Day, she may send you a card telling you what a great mother you are. The best ever. She may send you a text message informing you that