We’re raised to be good sons and daughters,’ he says with an affected South Asian accent. ‘You have to be strict, practising, have a wife and kids, a house, like our fathers and their fathers before us. To be the man of the house. Or you’re a failure. You’re not a man. They buy into it so much they don’t see how bullshit it all is. We’re not our forefathers’ generation. Men can cook and clean, too, you know?’
