It’s all nonsense. Why?
No. No it is not nonsense to permit other ADULTS to make their own choices. Yes, even if you think your way is better. Even if you see a potential pitfall they don’t see. Even if you think they are just plain wrong. Why? Because I also want to make my own choices without someone preaching at me about how they think I should live my life. It’s different if I ask. It’s different if I say, “What would you do about XYZ?” Or even, “Am I wrong?” Which yes, I have asked. But to simply give an open invitation for people to critique my living? That’s a big, fat Nope for me.