I do agree that “we” need that, however, that will be part of my rebuttal: you cannot hurry that along. It takes years to develop that kind of friendship with even one person, much less a handful of them. And the sad truth is, once you’re well into adulthood, the people who are worth having this kind of relationship with likely already have a few of those irons in the fire. Not that you *cannot* make new deep, close friendships past college, of course, just be aware that it takes TIME. It takes *years* of investment to have a friendship like this.
