Have lots of opinions about your friends’ lives.
This is what I think happens when you do that crazy thing of “inviting people to speak into” your life. In most cases, the saying about opinions being like assholes is accurate. My friends don’t have to do everything the way I think they should and I’m definitely not inviting people to freely bestow their opinions on me unless I ask. That’s why I think that financial accountability with your small group thing is NUTS. Unless one of them is a financial planner or an accountant, I don’t care what their opinion is on whether this is a good car to buy or whether I should shop at Harris Teeter or Aldi.
