Ask deep questions. Listen. Tell people what you are grateful for in them. Share the real stuff. Talk about Jesus. Do fun stuff together.
No, please don’t. Let’s just do fun stuff together. If I like you, and trust you, which will take at least three or four years for me to assess, *then*, maybe I will do a few of the other things listed here. But if someone I barely know tries to probe me with deep questions, I’m gonna shut that shit right down.
