Pray over those ten highlighted names, and ask God to help you decide on the three to five people to pursue deep relationships with. Who are those people? Circle each name with a red pen.
Honestly, it is so absurd. So very silly and absurd! I hate to break it to you hon, but you can’t form close inner sanctum friendships with someone *just because you want to.* It reminds me of when, as a teenager, we would write down names of the guys we “would marry” and would list their virtues, as if that was all it took to make Mr Right appear.
One thing she, so far at least, has not mentioned is that not everybody is interested in making more/new/closer friends. And frankly? With the exception of people who lack friends because of a move or change in situation (such as divorce), secure, stable people *have* friends; they aren’t gate-crashing pizza night at your home and forcing you to entertain them unannounced. They already have their two-to-five dear close friends.
