But why do we get caught up in what’s Nature or what’s Nurture? Humans are not Nature/Nurture. Humans are narrative. The stories we hear. The stories we tell. The stories we must learn to tell differently. Humans have been telling stories since time began – on cave walls, in song, in dance, in language. We make ourselves up as we go along. Who we are is not a law – we’re not like gravity. We are an ongoing story.