When you choose to love someone, it becomes your pleasure to do things that enhance their lives and bring you closer together, rather than a chore. It’s not: Sonofabitch, I have to do this bullshit thing for my wife again. It’s: I’m grateful for another opportunity to demonstrate to my wife that she comes first and that I can be counted on to be there for her and that she needn’t look elsewhere for happiness and fulfillment.
