“I don’t want a harem,” I said. “Of course you don’t,” Michaela responded. “But why did you think you did?” “I guess I felt if I had enough women, I’d always be able to find at least one of them who liked me.” “As long as you do things for the approval of a woman,” Michaela said, “you will never be free. That is a descending hell. And I’ll tell you—when a woman sees that she can bend you, she loses trust in you. We need you to be solid; we need your ‘yes’ to be a yes, and your ‘no’ to be a no. As long as you are twisting and contorting and selling yourself out for the affection of others, you
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