“I’m telling you how I feel. I don’t want to do it,” Jada said. “Well, you don’t know what it is, so you can’t know if you want to do it or not.” “It’s my birthday—just cancel it!” Jada snapped. “I’ll cancel it in the morning. Just go to sleep and see how you feel,” I snapped back. “CANCEL IT NOW!” Jada shrieked. “What the hell is your problem?” I asked. “That was the most disgusting display of ego I have ever seen in my life!” she said.