I would walk through fire for the people I love. I am fully prepared to die for my family. But no—I haven’t always focused on their feelings. I don’t trust feelings; feelings come and go and change like the weather. You can’t plan anything around them. And just because somebody feels something, doesn’t make it true; just because your feelings are extreme, doesn’t mean that you’re right—in fact, the more extreme your feelings are, the more likely it is that they’re skewed.