“Son, I know you didn’t do this to hurt Zach…but bringing a girl into the bed you share is going to hurt him. It’s hard enough for him to have you all to himself and suddenly have to share you with Carrie. Just be sensitive about it, okay? If you’re going to get serious with her and be bringing her up to your room, then maybe you and Zach need to have a long talk about not sharing a room anymore.” Not sharing a room? There’s no way I’m shoving him into his own room. Not having him with me is a horrible feeling.