Instead of asking yourself Why doesn’t X love me? What do I need to change about myself so that they can love me? What is it about me that’s making them not love me?, understand that just because someone doesn’t love you, it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. It could just mean this person isn’t right for you. So quit trying to change yourself in hopes that person will love you. Embrace your authentic self, and the right people will respect you for being authentic with yourself.