name two or three real friends. If you are married, take out your spouse. Now, be honest: When was the last time you talked to each of these “real friends” in depth? Would you be comfortable calling them if you were in trouble? If you struggled to name two or three, there’s a problem. And if you haven’t talked to them in a few months, or wouldn’t call them in a crisis, you are most likely mixing up real friends with deal friends.
