Lastly, healing never stops and that is actually great. We are conditioned to believe in, and want easily achieved gains, instant gratification and the ability to return to ‘normal’ after a burst of effort. But it doesn’t work that way. The best thing you can hope for is a love affair with your healing journey. For it to be so fun, enjoyable and explorative that you don’t even want to return to what once was. Cancer has shattered you, but also rebuilt you. That transformation might mean you do not fit in the same old conversations or relationships or thoughts or life any more. Maybe it really
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