Separation from that which is familiar and cherished is frightening. Yet the Holy Spirit is a spirit of light which will reveal the darkness of things you have held on to. When the darkness is revealed, what you once cherished will look different! In some cases, it will act different! The truth is nothing is different. In the process of evaluation, the presence of the Holy Spirit gives you the ability to see things in a new light. Hopefully that light will set you free.