“Don’t be ridiculous. You’ve gotta have a conversation. Tell him everything about how you feel and give him a chance to tell you what he’s feeling. Don’t run away when it gets hard, because let me tell you—if you’re with someone for their whole life, things are gonna get hard. They’re gonna get hard in ways you can’t even imagine. The only chance you have of making it work is by opening up your mouth and saying what you’re feeling.”
